If You Would Just Stop Bitching

Yesterday, I had a rough start at work. I walked into work at 5:30PM and right away I had to start seating customers.
There were two that came in who really wanted a booth. I looked at the seating chart and said "Yes, looks like we have a booth available." I sat them only to realize that the server for that section was still taking his time eating his dinner.

So I asked another server--"the bitch" if he could serve that booth.
He looked at me and said "NO" to my face.
"Are you serious?"
"Yea, I don't want to take a table that's been sitting there for 10 minutes without a server. They're not gonna tip me!"
"They've only been there for 5, and your section's the closest one to the booth"
"NO!"
Dumb man-boy.
Luckily, we had a sane and mature lady server who was willing to take that booth.
I thanked her and was about to walk out the kitchen.
And then something held me back.
Something called...
the need to call out on an asshole when he's being an asshole.

I walked back into the kitchen and said
"Man-boy, stop being a bitch."

He did not forgive me for the rest of the night. In fact, he insisted in calling himself a bitch and acting like one to me and everyone else who were on my side until he left the restaurant.

Everything that we did last night seemed to be attacking him.

Everything we said, he took it personally as a form of insult.

If you would just stop bitching, the world would probably start working out for you.
If you would stop blaming others for your misfortunes, you'd probably find a partner who'd love and respect you.
If you would just stop whining, you'd probably start doing greater things in life.

If you'd just stop bitching...

But you won't. Until you choose to grow up, man-boy!


Lessons and morals of the story:
1)It is so good to stand up for myself.
2)If you don't mind being a bitch to others, you should not mind when others are being bitches to you.
3)Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.